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Humour is ok....

Michelle H

London

Tip added 18/11/2014 12:34:59

When my best friend was going through her treatment I tried to keep things as real as possible for her and between us. The last thing somebody needs is seriousness all the time and people surrounding them with grey clouds when actually, making them laugh and keeping things as normal as possible can work a treat. At the end of the day, she is still my best friend and the same girl I grew up with. I knew what I could get away with! Her cancer was not going to change that. It had no chance x

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Hi Michelle. I may be a tad bias but I really love this tip. :-) I agree with what you say. Don't treat your friends any differently or tiptoe around them. Keep it real! Thanks for the tip and also for being my best friend and amazing support during a horrible time in my life Caroline

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